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kephra | 10 years ago
One of my favorite parable, is the imagination: You are very talented. You can lay eggs. Society defines being healthy as not picking on other chicken or own feathers. But its not you who is insane, the cages are a system of insanity.
The extreme cases of junkies on the street, and alcoholics in their flat come into mind, when thinking about addiction. Those are extreme cases of people who have no place in real life also. The drugs, are their way to find a place in life to be happy. Even if only for a short time. Teach them ways to become autonomic, to find their own path through life, and addiction will calm down by itself.
tomhoward|10 years ago
I recall with fondness and sadness, both of them at their best... kind, generous, witty, intelligent; highly capable in their careers and loving and supportive to their families and close friends.
But each of them had ways in which they didn't quite fit in, and didn't always get the returns for the efforts they put in to try to achieve what they wanted in life, and as their frustrations grew, their self-destructive behaviours escalated, and the key support structures in life - most crucially their jobs and relationships - began to fall away.
But it was absolutely not the substance abuse issues that came first; in both cases that happened after the heavy knocks of life took their toll.
From observing these stories, I've become painfully aware that society just isn't very good at equipping people to understand why and how they're going wrong in life and how they can correct and achieve happiness and fulfilment. The support services that do exist, like therapy, AA, rehab etc, only become available when the problem is already entrenched and that much harder to turn around. I learned this when I recognised that I was starting to head down the wrong path in life and sought help before it got out of control, but the response was generally something like "you're pretty fine, don't waste our time".
I did end up finding an effective way of getting my life on track, and things are now going very well for me. I hope to live to see a time when it's much easier for far more people in the world to recognise their own failings and risk factors before they get out of control and find a better path before it's too late, and I'll be doing what I can to contribute to that cause.
uptownJimmy|10 years ago
The hopelessness and loneliness and anxiety came first, though. Heavy knocks of life, indeed.
im3w1l|10 years ago
slfnflctd|10 years ago
For me, there were signs of compulsive behavior very early on - from food to reading novels nonstop - and I knew after the first time I experienced a 'buzz' as a child (probably an antihistamine) that this could cause me even more trouble.
Would I have sought escapes out less if my family and social lives had been better, or would I have been drawn in no matter what? I have no idea. Regardless, I did manage to learn with time that 'finding a path', as you say, led me to deeper experiences that not only reduced my desire to escape, but made even the escapes richer and more enjoyable. Of course, the pendulum swings, but it is good to know there are other ways one can live-- which is not always clear to younger people, simply because they haven't proven it to themselves yet.
One of the worst ways we fail young people seeking meaning is by giving them incomplete, conflicting and downright false ideas about what to value. I suspect this in large part because we haven't quite properly reached consensus on this as a species. In any case, I certainly believe we can do better.
Ollinson|10 years ago
Most professionals I know in the field take the attitude that a patient's psychological state should only be corrected if that patient feels they are an impediment to their own goals. This also goes along with the popular alcoholics anonymous mantra "we can't help you till you want to help yourself" (I'm not advocating AA just that it's a popular approach).
Of course this doesn't apply to people who have behavior disorders or are violent and end up committed.
foobar2020|10 years ago
But this does not mean that patient's consent is required for a valid diagnosis of a mental disorder. Denial is a serious problem and somehow an internal part of certain diseases such as mania, or, as you mentioned, early stage addictions.
foobar2020|10 years ago
We allow patients to follow a slightly different path than the rest of the society till full recovery in the case of disorders such as cancer or depression, which can take years. Addiction should be treated the same way.
digi_owl|10 years ago
Just try it, wrap a bandaid around your otherwise functioning arm (so its visible) and watch people become more helpful.
paublyrne|10 years ago
Yes, but as addiction goes deeper it becomes more difficult to escape. It's not a nice thing to say, but there is probably a point of no return for many, after long periods of drug and alcohol abuse. Early interventions are crucial.
digi_owl|10 years ago
Yes, it is a chemical reaction inside the brain. But over time that chemical reaction gets padded by conditioned reflexes. This to the point that one may find some relief by mimicking the actions related to the chemical reaction.
The real crazy stuff comes when it becomes harder to kick those conditions reflexes than the chemical addiction itself. Meaning that the body no longer craves the chemical, but still react to external stimuli by attempting to go through the actions related to taking the chemical.
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andreasvc|10 years ago
How is this any different from the "premise of curing addicted people"? It seems naive to expect problems to go away by themselves.
Your comment seems to present some sort of anti-psychiatry narrative, which is a dangerous and irresponsible set of ideas, IMHO.