top | item 13900193

(no title)

edblarney | 9 years ago

Yes - sometimes people refer to people who are attractive as 'drop dead hot' or 'bombshells' or '10's.

These are colloquial terms for how we sometimes refer to attractiveness.

Your insinuation that this is 'sexist' is completely wrong.

And even if I did refer to gender, it would be fine.

Crude, maybe, but sexist. No.

"Does the HN community condones this and at the same time rally against sexual harassment at statups?"

Referring to some unidentified people as 'drop dead hot' is not remotely harassing, and your indication that this should somehow be screened is wrong, and problematic. I'll suggest that your position might be the impetus for why so many people are weary, or skeptical of some movements concerning 'sexism in the valley'.

And FYI in no way did I imply that somehow immigrants cannot be 'hot'. I'm indicating that in some places 'menial jobs' are done by otherwise 'high social status' individuals because of the social dynamic. In most places, you don't find attractive people working at McDonalds - because they will work in retail, in funner, better environments consistent with their sense of identity. Or bartending/waitressing where their attractiveness yields significantly better outcomes in tipping - and frankly - even in ordering (attractive staff make people spend more).

Though migrants can definitely be 'hot' - individuals who are undocumented are generally 'very low social status' and are almost excluded from most of the social context.

It's not a moral statement - being 'low social status' does not imply lower human worth - it's an observation of a social system.

All animals are social, and develop social hierarchy - it's a fundamental dynamic of nature.

discuss

order

No comments yet.