Dating for nerds (part 1): problem diagnosis

[Vanit]

I think this skips out probably what is the biggest hurdle for "nerds"; you can't trick your crushes into liking you back by being a nice friend to them.

[stared]

Things related to friendzone will go in part 3. In short: no, just being nice is not enough (cf: no one will hire you just because haven't stolen anything).

Though, the most common thing that is missing is not taking risks - most of the time nerd fail to ask question (and of course, rejection is possible - but still better to be stuck in a limbo).

[thisisit]

This. One of my biggest takeaways from the book by Mark Manson - Models.

[Dude2018]

Just for god's sake don't date washed up 30+ year old ones unless you are 40. No, they are not attracted to you but rather you IT salary.

[nhylated]

Story time?