[Jallal]

It's fine as long you know the game you're playing.

And this is the big issue : no one learn has told you, neither taught you how to play it. But some people were. Those are fine.

For the others (me included) we had to figure out on our own. Learn that we played the game the wrong way, or find another place. It took time, and a lot of investment and efforts are wasted in the process. And some people never learn. Meanwhile, those people stole undeserved credit. And if you ask them, they will tell you its thanks to their leadership and all that bullshit.

Actually, the most important thing you said is that : life is not fair. 100% fully agree.