[AaronBallman]

I don't think it's a myth so much as a misunderstanding of terminology. If an implementation defines some undefined behavior from the standard, it stops being undefined behavior at that point (for that implementation) and is no longer something you need to avoid except for portability concerns.

You're exactly right that this is why there is a distinction between conforming and strictly conforming code.

[flatfinger]

The problem is that under modern interpretation, even if some parts of the Standard and a platform's documentation would define the behavior of some action, the fact that some part of the Standard would regards an overlapping category of constructs as invoking UB overrides everything else.

[AaronBallman]

I could imagine misguided readings of some coding standard advice that would lead to that interpretation, but it's still not an interpretation that makes sense to me.

Implementations define undefined behavior all the time and users rely on it. For instance, POSIX defines that you can convert an object pointer into a function pointer (for dlsym to work), or implementations often rely on offsets from a null pointer for their 'offsetof' macro implementation.