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sigacts | 5 years ago

Someday he will realize this situation was staged, but he will forever appreciate the sense of exploration and adventure that you instilled in him.

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natmaka|5 years ago

This sort of thing seems also useful to teach to the youngster, upon the time he understands/learns that he was tricked, that even folks may lie to him (deliberately or not).

In a society truth is less important than relationships, communication, shared "knowledge" (myths).

It may be one of the reason why the Santa Claus character (among other ones) stays "alive" in the culture.

caro_douglos|5 years ago

I’ve been rewatching a lot of older movies lately given the Rona sitch...one of the scenes came to mind when reading your comment. You can’t fool me!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_Sy6oiJbEk

Ps. Watching this scene feels like almost all the employee stock option situations I OH in the Bay Area. Thankfully Carta is there to show you how little you get as an employee if and only if you go public.

jon_elbrook|5 years ago

>In a society truth is less important than relationships

Then he should have create a relationship of honesty. it's good to know that somebody wont lie to you, even to make you happy.

rclayton|5 years ago

Did this happen to you?

msie|5 years ago

:-/

eitland|5 years ago

When I was a kid we went hiking in the mountains with my dad and my uncle every fall catching small trouts (50-150g I guess) in the creeks using wooden poles and worms on hooks.

I was a grown up before it dawned to me that if it wasn't for us they could have gone somewhere else and caught real fish.

They never said anything but today I do the same: sometimes we go hiking on Sundays before or after church, "expeditions into the wilderness", tenting in the garden.

prepend|5 years ago

That or he will feel tricked and betrayed and wonder what other things in his reality were crafted for him by his parents.

I think it would be a really amazing experience, but I would be bummed out to find that my favorite childhood memory wasn’t real.

SeanDav|5 years ago

> "That or he will feel tricked and betrayed and wonder what other things in his reality were crafted for him by his parents."

Don't agree at all. Do you feel betrayed that Santa is not real or there is no such thing as a tooth fairy?

_s|5 years ago

Santa? Tooth Fairy? Easter Bunny? Disney Land?

Memories are real, experiences are as real as one wants them to be.

We all learn critical thinking and separating fact from fiction eventually, but that doesn’t mean you can’t look back fondly on experiences you enjoyed as a kid.

pistoriusp|5 years ago

Or... They could appreciate the amount of effort that their parent made into making the world magical for them, they might reflect on that when they have children and do the same, and they'll be grateful for a wonderful upbringing.

michaelt|5 years ago

Man, you are going to be pissed when you hear about Santa Claus :D