[balladeer]

Then that's rather pretty shitty of rest of us. The rest of us should just have someone's "No" and bugger off.

[saagarjha]

I happen to be excluded from your "we" ;) We would like it if people didn't do this, but it happens and it doesn't help us to be annoying. Especially in cases where people don't realize that they're prying being sanctimonious in response can come off as being unreasonably smug.