This article deserves some kind of award for peak pretentious smugness, a la South Park fart huffing. I'm not sure what the point is. Restaurants are nice. Muh facemasks.
>"restaurants are where life is lived"
As opposed to ... the rest of where life is lived?
>"Restaurants bring humanity to a city. They’re central to my memories. "
I'm pretty sure bringing food to a city is more central to restaurantness than bringing "humanity" to a city.
"Eating out in Houston is an exercise in acceptance." -are you shitting me? Do people actually feel virtuous and beatific because they bought a bucket of pork fried rice from someone not of the same race as them? What the hell is going on here?
I wear a mask when I go to a store, and I'm glad I live in an area where people generally do and you don't get harassed for it.
But I would get serious cognitive dissonance if I went to a restaurant or did anything else that met my personal threshold for "not really necessary". I mean, say there's someone who isn't wearing a mask. Can I really complain or feel superior, given that neither of us has to be there?
Point of clarification: "Latinx" is not a real word. "Latino" serves perfectly well, and should be used instead of some made-up word created to assuage notions of wokeness.
In case you just read the "3%" in the title and dismiss it, here's a few of the interesting breakdowns from the survey:
"Young Hispanics, ages 18 to 29, are among the most likely to have heard of the term – 42% say they have heard of it, compared with 7% of those ages 65 or older."
"Use is among the highest for Hispanic women ages 18 to 29 – 14% say they use it, a considerably higher share than the 1% of Hispanic men in the same age group who say they use it."
"42% of those who have heard the term describe it as a gender-neutral one."
"12% of respondents who had heard of Latinx express disagreement or dislike of the term. Some described the term as an “anglicism” of the Spanish language, while others say the term is “not representative of the larger Latino community.”"
Also, technically, all words are made-up. That's how we got words.
Furthermore it doesn't make any sense in the Spanish language, where it is perfectly normal to have Latinos (n. m), Latinas (n. f), and Latinos (n. n).
It is a word entirely for the American activist class.
> Eating out in Houston is an exercise in acceptance. Someone who probably doesn’t look like you—whether that’s the waitstaff, the back of the house—is letting you into their home.
This is just a wild sentence. People don't become less racist after eating foreign food. People should not feel proud about themselves just because they spent money on a bowl of ramen.
> In Houston, most days out of the week, I’ve found myself in the company of family that wasn’t my own, that’s adopted me nonetheless.
There has to be a way to express, "restaurant workers are struggling financially because of COVID", without projecting that the minimum wage workers at your favorite Korean restaurant think of you as an adopted family member.
They just want to do their job and earn a living without contracting a contagious disease. They shouldn't, on top of that, be forced to emotionally validate their customers.
>People don't become less racist after eating foreign food
No, I think the point is, people (like the author) feel less racist after eating foreign food among people who don't look like them. Pride is one possible emotion, but relief is one that seems like it would generalize more. The internet is full of faceless people talking about racism, and getting out in the real world and doing normal things around normal people can be therapeutic. Like taking a walk outside the cult compound.
>They shouldn't, on top of that, be forced to emotionally validate their customers.
Well, the point is to describe how they do, whether or not intentionally; do you have a proposal for how they should stop gratifying customers?
You're entitled to find the picture painted ugly, but if it's really shocking, then writing the article may be worthwhile regardless.
Lots of places in the US have had less strict lockdowns and earlier reopenings than other countries. That may be part of why the US has had such a worse outbreak than those other countries.
I wouldn't take a single author writing about eating in a restaurant as an indication. Look at the numbers instead; it's pretty bad.
[+] [-] scottlocklin|5 years ago|reply
>"restaurants are where life is lived"
As opposed to ... the rest of where life is lived?
>"Restaurants bring humanity to a city. They’re central to my memories. "
I'm pretty sure bringing food to a city is more central to restaurantness than bringing "humanity" to a city.
"Eating out in Houston is an exercise in acceptance." -are you shitting me? Do people actually feel virtuous and beatific because they bought a bucket of pork fried rice from someone not of the same race as them? What the hell is going on here?
[+] [-] perl4ever|5 years ago|reply
I wear a mask when I go to a store, and I'm glad I live in an area where people generally do and you don't get harassed for it.
But I would get serious cognitive dissonance if I went to a restaurant or did anything else that met my personal threshold for "not really necessary". I mean, say there's someone who isn't wearing a mask. Can I really complain or feel superior, given that neither of us has to be there?
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[+] [-] wffurr|5 years ago|reply
In case you just read the "3%" in the title and dismiss it, here's a few of the interesting breakdowns from the survey:
"Young Hispanics, ages 18 to 29, are among the most likely to have heard of the term – 42% say they have heard of it, compared with 7% of those ages 65 or older."
"Use is among the highest for Hispanic women ages 18 to 29 – 14% say they use it, a considerably higher share than the 1% of Hispanic men in the same age group who say they use it."
"42% of those who have heard the term describe it as a gender-neutral one."
"12% of respondents who had heard of Latinx express disagreement or dislike of the term. Some described the term as an “anglicism” of the Spanish language, while others say the term is “not representative of the larger Latino community.”"
Also, technically, all words are made-up. That's how we got words.
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[+] [-] microcolonel|5 years ago|reply
It is a word entirely for the American activist class.
[+] [-] danShumway|5 years ago|reply
This is just a wild sentence. People don't become less racist after eating foreign food. People should not feel proud about themselves just because they spent money on a bowl of ramen.
> In Houston, most days out of the week, I’ve found myself in the company of family that wasn’t my own, that’s adopted me nonetheless.
There has to be a way to express, "restaurant workers are struggling financially because of COVID", without projecting that the minimum wage workers at your favorite Korean restaurant think of you as an adopted family member.
They just want to do their job and earn a living without contracting a contagious disease. They shouldn't, on top of that, be forced to emotionally validate their customers.
[+] [-] perl4ever|5 years ago|reply
No, I think the point is, people (like the author) feel less racist after eating foreign food among people who don't look like them. Pride is one possible emotion, but relief is one that seems like it would generalize more. The internet is full of faceless people talking about racism, and getting out in the real world and doing normal things around normal people can be therapeutic. Like taking a walk outside the cult compound.
>They shouldn't, on top of that, be forced to emotionally validate their customers.
Well, the point is to describe how they do, whether or not intentionally; do you have a proposal for how they should stop gratifying customers?
You're entitled to find the picture painted ugly, but if it's really shocking, then writing the article may be worthwhile regardless.
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[+] [-] wffurr|5 years ago|reply
I wouldn't take a single author writing about eating in a restaurant as an indication. Look at the numbers instead; it's pretty bad.