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I think this is not sad, they are free to demand whatever they want, like you are free to accept that.

In fact, it is not a very good idea to accept that. You will be labeled instantly as "provider", not as a "lover".

Most women that have "providers" also have "lovers" and usually it is not the same person.

That is a lesson that I learned long time ago, when I met a very successful with women man, that actually treated them very badly. He had the mentality that it were women the ones that should prove their value to him.

Over the years I met other people with the same mindset, and even started applying it somewhat myself. I am physically attractive and educated, but I also was for some time too much polite with women, putting them on a pedestal for being successful with them.

The most attractive thing for women is character strength. Also things like being a world traveler helps a lot. You can be penniless, if you have those two things, attracting all the women you want is no problem.