[barnaclejive]

I think it depends a lot on what they put in the "____" for:

> or if you've been spending more time doing ___

Was ____ "watching Netflix", or was ____ "helping person X who is doing more interesting work and whom you are not being paid to help/work with."

[_ZeD_]

do anyone actually have received something like "or if you've been spending more time doing watching Netflix"??

It's more than a red flag.