[throwaway-8c93]

I'm one of those that save/invest 70% of their take-home income. It's not about frugality at all - I would gladly pay for an increased quality of life - but it's simply not on offer. Past a certain threshold, a threshold well within the reach of western upper-middle-class households, the exchange rate between money and the quality of life becomes essentially zero. What's left are pointless status seeking games, scams and useless trinkets. The Bible's Book of Ecclesiastes describes it poignantly:

> I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure[...] Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun

[fleddr]

Fully agree with you. I believe a few years ago there was research stating that roughly speaking, 70K per year (in spending) is the happiness threshold.

Any spending above it leads to no, marginal, or only temporary extra happiness.

I put that bar far lower, personally. We already have the stuff we need and don't enjoy shopping. We're basically stuck at a particular spending level whilst income grows over time. Saving a large portion of our income is effortless, and not at all a sacrifice of quality of life.

The secret to life is to not want so much. It makes life so much easier and better.

[devonkim]

The study is cited frequently but it’s misinterpreted frequently or in a disingenuous way. It merely says that among people earning so much, more money does not contribute as much for happiness. This has some sad realities: by and large the wealthier / higher income are much happier than our poorest, and giving money to our poorest have the largest gains in aggregate happiness. This is consistent with other studies on happiness - money makes everyone a little happier at least, and not having enough is a big problem. Sure, other studies also show how our poorer may be fairly happy and connected to communities and all that, but if you take a look at the data they are from decades and decades ago and include retirees as well.

There is certainly an argument that diminishing returns is true in terms of happiness, but at the same time incomes explode beyond a certain point and data points become a lot more sparse and difficult to correlate back to the population.

It’s quite difficult to not want so much given much of social pressures in developed countries are around consumption. This, the criteria to me is more broad than merely not wanting much - the question is about resisting social pressures and to be comfortable and thankful, and this seems to be inline with the data so far on happiness and social relationships as a whole (happy couples tend to have certain habits and innate drives prior to marriage like being selfless, gracious, etc for example)

[dnate]

> I believe a few years ago there was research stating that roughly speaking, 70K per year (in spending) is the happiness threshold.

> Any spending above it leads to no, marginal, or only temporary extra happiness.

You are quoting an outdated study. New research [1] has shown that happiness does in fact not plateau at 70k, unfortunately

[1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/alexledsom/2021/02/07/new-study...

[bradlys]

You must live in a LCOL and/or make an extremely high amount of money and/or like to live an unusually low quality of life for your income.

Saving 70% of your take-home in some place like the SFBA is saying you're an extremely high earner and/or you really like studio apartments.

[ZephyrBlu]

If you already have good quality of life and it's not about frugality it sounds like you're a very high earner, in which case the point is moot.

Most people don't have the option to save 70% of their take home pay and still live comfortably.

[troupe]

Maybe, but most people who do have the option to save 70% of their take home pay don't. Perhaps our definition of what it means to live comfortably is partially to blame. I know a family of 10 that live very comfortably in a small 3 bedroom home, but most people wouldn't define it as comfortable for themselves.

[EEREPRESENT]

same experience here. i can afford everythihg but i dont need much. i dont think people understand what kind of stress relief is to say that u can live the life you want for 30-40 years without having to work.

[nmfisher]

A lot of truth to this comment. I can’t believe the amount of money I wasted in my early 20s on…junk. Things that, with the benefit of hindsight, actually brought me no pleasure at all.

I’m glad I realised this, and I totally agree - once you realize that consumerism doesn’t materially improve your life, your “minimum income threshold” drops considerably.

For me, the biggest exception is travel, which really adds up if you want to take a couple of overseas trips per year.

[mensetmanusman]

Ecclesiastes is the best, totally cured me of materialism, and I am happier for it.