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axaxs | 4 years ago

For some reason, pointing out differences in people triggers some racist warning. I think it's absolutely fascinating. I'll list just a few.

To list a few examples from the Philippines...they point with their lips, small people with unusually big feet, which probably lends to climbing trees. I noticed this riding transport, as everyone wears flip flops. I wear a 13 US, and I borrowed shoes that fit from a 5'7 man. I saw people climb a vertical tree like a ladder. Please don't take this as some insult, I'm jealous.

They generally have small noses and recognize people by noses. I've never had so many people comment on my nose in my life. Half were in awe, half were insulting.

But it varies so much. In Manila you see a lot of lighter, almost hispanic looking people. In the villages, you see darker and wilder looking people. I remember a bad storm in the villages, and a lady sitting rocking holding her legs and something just seemed so primal in the reaction and look on her face.

I'll -never- forget how they cry, it's so different than Americans. Haunting really.

Probably the most stark thing I noticed though was how easy they sleep. You could get on a hot, crowded, bumpy bus and everyone is sleeping as if they're on a mattress. My wife and daughter are from the region, and are usually sleeping by the time I leave the neighborhood in my vehicle, which makes me think there's something there.

They are the friendliest, and by far the most spry people. I remember waking up hearing the hotel lady's flip flops clanking as she ran between rooms. Everyone ran everywhere, it's so much faster and more efficient than how us overweight Americans waddle around. Jealous, again.

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dirtylowprofile|4 years ago

I’m from the Philippines and first time I read someone commented about our cries. Haha!

axaxs|4 years ago

I happened to be in a village where someone died. I was blown away by how different it sounded. The first person almost sounded dramatic(to me), but the choir that joined truly made something that was haunting.

godmode2019|4 years ago

Interestingly in China they would describe someone by their nose. 'He was tall and had a large nose bridge'

I have never considered someone's nose. But they have types of noses they deem as attractive, and the larger the pointer the better.

You will notice in Chinese movies they actors all had the same type of nose.

In my country its almost rude to even mention someone's nose.

axaxs|4 years ago

I never knew my nose was large, or anything really. The first person I met told me I had a 'sharp' nose and kept staring at it.

What I figured later was that Americans have tons of ways to differentiate people. Height, weight, eye color, hair color, race, etc. In a more homogeneous country, I guess noses are definers.

Clewza313|4 years ago

A common nickname for westerners in China is dabizi (大鼻子), literally "big nose". And a mysterious yet common compliment in Japan is to be told hana ga takai (鼻が高い), lit. "[your] nose is high".

danans|4 years ago

> I'll -never- forget how they cry, it's so different than Americans. Haunting really.

How do "Americans" cry exactly? Perhaps the Americans you know, or what you've seen depicted in movies, but you can't generalize about all Americans, not at the least because that term isn't defined at all by things like how people cry.

> They are the friendliest, and by far the most spry people.

I'm sure you meant nothing but the best, but using superlatives, even positive sounding ones, to describe an entire population, especially one as diverse as those of the Philippines, echoes colonial perspectives that denied the cultures that they subjugated the right to be complex.

It's akin to how white Americas would often essentialize blacks as inherently rhythmically or musically gifted, ostensibly as praise, but in doing so casting them as incapable of doing things that whites did.

I have no doubt that your own personal experiences with them are as you describe, but they are just that - your experiences, and not generalizable.

silisili|4 years ago

Please go away. You embody the reason I wanted to say nothing at all. I'm not colonizing anything, I'm just an ugly guy with a curious brain.

If you can't tell a difference between an American and Filipino cry, you have no business refuting anything.

nextaccountic|4 years ago

The way babies cry may be influenced by the language of the parents

https://archive.is/CYLFm "Do Babies Cry in Different Languages?"

> Quantitative acoustic analysis of these recordings has produced further insights into the factors that shape a baby’s first sounds. Newborns whose mothers speak tonal languages, such as Mandarin, tend to produce more complex cry melodies. Swedish newborns, whose native language has what linguists call a “pitch accent,” produce more sing-songy cries.

It's not that far fetched to imagine that adults can vary in the way they cry for many reasons, and this variation be consistent across populations.