[SandersAK]

it's very possible for you to have the experience you're describing from a system, and for the system to be predatory and extractive.

Just as many people live in nice suburbs and work in cities where there's extreme poverty. They get a good life, don't often have to contend with the pain and suffering of others, and can dismiss those claims as exaggeration.

[notreallyserio]

It is, and it’s also possible that some suffering is entirely voluntary, like the effects of using Facebook’s default sort method.