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almeria | 4 years ago

If you are a toxic moron who will start badmouthing their former colleagues

Or are dealing with a genuinely painful day-to-day work situation and are struggling to keep a lid on it.

I get the point that venting about the problems of one's current or previous environments is bad form, and not anything anyone really wants to hear about it. But the touch of schadenfreude in your characterization of the (often very real and painful) situations these people are helping doesn't exactly help, either.

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evilduck|4 years ago

How else should an uninvolved outsider view someone who can't keep drama out of an introduction call with a stranger besides as a toxic moron?

You can certainly voice displeasure with your current working arrangement tactfully (who's going to be able to verify what you have to say? nobody) but if you can't keep yourself emotionally under control which asked an open ended, indirect, and predictable question you're throwing out all sorts of warning signs that you should not be hired.

jollybean|4 years ago

There are all sorts of situations in work life that are problematic.

'Badmouthing' one's former employer would more likely just indicate a general lack of tact, and it wouldn't necessarily even say that much about the current employment situation.

Not having a good fit in your current situation is just fine, you just have to communicate it thoughtfully to prospective employers, to not be cynical or petty about it, and not belabour the issue or let it dour the overall disposition of your candidacy.

chadash|4 years ago

> Or are dealing with a genuinely painful day-to-day work situation and are struggling to keep a lid on it.

A recruiter is not your therapist. Don't treat them like one.

almeria|4 years ago

Who cares about recruiters?

The point there's no need to feel smug about people who are dealing with seriously nasty stuff.