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Karen Simulator – feel what it's like to be named Karen

59 points| xeddit | 4 years ago |karen.icey.one | reply

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[+] bmmayer1|4 years ago|reply
This is fascinating spin on that whole "put yourself in the shoes of someone who has to experience X". Most non-Karens probably do not empathize with normal people named Karen -- how could you? But even surface-level discrimination based on something as arbitrary as a name can lead to real feelings of alienation and dehumanization.
[+] swimfar|4 years ago|reply
"how could you?" How could you not? It blew my mind how little push back there was against the use of this slur. Even more frustrating was that a lot of people using it were the people who claimed to be fighting against bigotry. Even if you didn't think it was racist or sexist, it was clearly something that would make anyone named Karen feel bad. It doesn't take extreme empathetic ability to understand that.
[+] exo-pla-net|4 years ago|reply
Yep. I have a friend named Karen in my life. The meme has caused her sufficient distress that she has considered changing her name.
[+] tsol|4 years ago|reply
I'm surprised at how everyone adopted it. It sounds like the mean jokes me and my friends who spent too much time online would make in high school. And even back then it was inappropriate. It's like 4chan culture became mainstream and everyone bought in because they didn't realize where that 'fun internet culture' came from
[+] jsmcgd|4 years ago|reply
Personally I hope this works. I've always liked the name Karen. It would be great to see it get rehabilitated. I'm not a Karen, I don't know any Karens, but I can imagine that this must really suck for them.

I knew an Osama at university in 2003. Poor guy had to change his name. Another nice name ruined.

[+] Dracophoenix|4 years ago|reply
I wonder why certain names acquire the infamy of their worst namesakes (e.g. Adolf) and not others (e.g. Vladimir, Joseph)
[+] vba616|4 years ago|reply
There are people named Saddam Hussein in the US. Possibly with slight spelling differences.

As Michael Bolton said "Why should I change? He's the one who sucks."

[+] iforgotpassword|4 years ago|reply
Doesn't load anything after entering a name, or clicking "load more". Hn hug of death?
[+] rightbyte|4 years ago|reply
No "Cross-Origin Request Blocked". It loads Reddit with "Karen" replaced with X for posts with Karen in it. Really funny idea actually!
[+] anm89|4 years ago|reply
This one is tough because it doesn't feel like any one person or group is pushing this meme so there is no interface to push back on.

I've always felt bad for the Karens since this has been going on.

[+] rightbyte|4 years ago|reply
I don't get this Reddit "Mrs. Karen Boomer" thing. It seems like a bit distasteful cross-generation discontent, aimed at ordinary people of that generation?

And this site is a joke in that regard, what Reddit will look like if you were named Karen, as you would see "u/FuckYouYourname" everywhere and be used as a general scapegoat?

[+] giantg2|4 years ago|reply
What is the point of this? Just because ones first name is involved in some social/cultural "thing" that is negative, doesn't mean it impacts a person (I've been in this situation as a kid). It only affects someone if they are called the "thing" intentionally, which generally does not require a person to share the true name.

Edit: thanks for downvoting my opinion that this website is ineffectual without supplying any evidence that it does work, or is better than a well explained article.

[+] serf|4 years ago|reply
>What is the point of this?

to demonstrate a horrible aspect to an audience that might have otherwise thought the whole 'Karen' meme was harmless.

>Just because ones first name is involved in some social/cultural "thing" that is negative, doesn't mean it impacts a person (I've been in this situation as a kid).

while i'm glad you had the mental fortitude to deal with it, the name-calling is very real, and it has affected people in very real ways.

the social phenomenon has made people consider name changes[0], what more evidence do you need that a human cost/impact has occurred?

[0]: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women/karen-insult-...