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Surround yourself with good supportive people and avoid those who put you down.

In my younger years, you can't avoid the people who tend to project their insecurities on you: bullies, primadonnas, etc. Schools and workplaces are mixed bags, where often people make friends based on superficial characteristics.

Places where I found supportive people: * Startup scene * Church groups * Tech groups * Mentorship groups

These folks helped me see life in a more balanced way. People aren't out to get you, they are just thinking about how others think about themselves. Same as you.