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SenpaiHurricane | 3 years ago

As a Turkish engineer who left Turkey 3.5 years ago, I wish you good luck! You will feel alone, confused and behind at the beginning but later on you will adopt European life style and you will realize there is a huge world out there to not belong a single country. You made a great choose, enjoy it!

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_qvu2|3 years ago

Thank you for the good wishes! Tbh didn't feel much loneliness since I know few people here in Germany and also nearby countries. Getting adapted to a new country is a sweet experience. Enjoying it so far.

weatherlite|3 years ago

It is a very very long journey. Not trying to discourage you or anything but have you even had your first German winter?

jdrc|3 years ago

Interesting, what are the things that a Turk would need to adapt to?

t43562|3 years ago

  Not being able to bend the rules.
  Sorting rubbish. 
  The need to get 3 quotes before you get anyone to work on your house
  The fact that not everything is a conspiracy
  Foreigners sometimes prefer to finish work properly rather than fast - e.g. without leaving wires sticking out of the wall in a big shopping mall etc. 
  Non Turks aren't all accustomed to you going up and talking to their baby as a total stranger
  Not having toilets that squirt water on your bum like they do in Turkey.
You can live in a nearly complete Turkish bubble in the UK and Germany is probably even more like that.

This would be sad. Turkish food, for example, might sometimes be good but the world has a lot to offer and I've met a lot of Turks who won't try anything (Brits are probably slightly better on average but many are just as bad).

SenpaiHurricane|3 years ago

Things I learnt so far:

- Slowing down (Turkish people always in a rush)' - Saying 'NO' (we tend to say YES a lot eventhough we think it is a no situation, both in your real life and work life) - Every people I met, they already visited most of the countries in Europe, so they are travelling all world and met with different people from different cultures. Before I came Europe I only visited one country other than Turkey. It takes some time learn other cultures and how to behave... - Politics is stupid. - There are other problems than economy, middle east, religion etc. People are talking about sustanability, climate change, electronic cars etc.

There are other things but these are the ones come to my mind so far :)

vincentmarle|3 years ago

Germany has the largest diaspora of Turkish people (~3M), so you wouldn't have to adapt much if you don't want to.

agumonkey|3 years ago

how many (and which) country did you go to ?

SenpaiHurricane|3 years ago

After I moved to NL, I have visited 9 different countries.