[Koiwai]

I don't normally care about the author's gender, but I'd argue assuming that is a man is a honest mistake, as long as women in the tech industry is still a minority. Do you really need to go that far? I think that shows how fragile you're.

[honkycat]

when i make a mistake, i apologize and correct it.

Especially one as minor as misgendering, which inevitably happens and is easily fixed with a quick: "oh, they*! My apologies!"

so your assertion "i don't care" comes off as flippant and aggressive.