[hrudham]

I respectfully disagree. I did exactly this for a number of years. A colleague (and is now friend since we've both left said company) made it clear he would not work overtime without compensation (and never did), but his day-to-day work was excellent. He knew he had a skill they required, and was good at it (and our skill sets were the same).

Our careers both grew at about the same pace for four years. He became known as the go-to guy for green-field projects, while I was the guy you could put onto over-budget tight-deadline projects to rescue them. I worked a lot of weekends for my troubles, and I always envied how he ended up on the "fun" projects. I learnt a lot from him. As a professional, some self respect is required, or you will be abused.

[toomuchtodo]

> As a professional, some self respect is required, or you will be abused.

These are hard learned lessons. You also have to structure your life in a way that you don’t need the job and can walk away when needed.