[cowbolt]

>To clarify, I'm only talking about code in the same project that everyone has access to. I'm not talking about defining an API for other people to use that don't have access to the code, like when you make a library.

If you can see the use in access modifiers for libraries then it's not so hard to make the leap to its general usefulness. Defining objects with clear and simple APIs is extremely valuable when working on complex software projects. As the code base inevitably grows to a point where no one knows every part of it, you want developers to be able to contribute without having intimate knowledge of everything. The value proposition is the same as for third-party libraries.