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rfergie | 3 years ago

Don't you just end up on a "meaning treadmill" instead?

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mattgreenrocks|3 years ago

IME, meaning is far more satiating than happiness simply because it is able to offset more BS than being happy will.

More to your question: what happens is your tolerance for meaninglessness decreases, which has good and bad side effects.

slfnflctd|3 years ago

> your tolerance for meaninglessness decreases

I think part of what keeps me locked on to the hedonistic treadmill is that a lot of other people (including my partner) don't like who I am when I'm trying to stay off it. I tend to get more intense about a lot of things most folks don't care about.

It's funny, out of my whole family & friend circle I'm probably doing the most damage to myself via self medication, but when I try to get serious about things that matter and take a break from intoxicants, I end up doing just as much damage or more by putting my relationships through pointless trials of fire.

But I know what you mean about meaning. When it's good, it's really good and worth every bit of seeking.

It's unfortunate there are so many pitfalls to dodge for so many of us.