This is what I mean by 'putting in the work'. Most people won't do this. They shortcut the below process becz they're just lonely and/or just want sex.
To answer your question, WAAAY later than you think.
Once you are friends and they are comfortable with you. You know their hobbies/passions and things that annoy them. You're trying to understand if this person is someone you want to hang out with for a long time and you'd have fun with them even if you weren't 'together'. You have to be really 'into' chillin with this person.
Most people use the dating period to get to know one another. The problem is the desire to 'date' and have sex (as early as possible) is a real turn off. Your ability to not want sex makes you a LOT more attractive and serious. Women put up with this becz most guys do this. Not doing this puts you in a different league.
Really you're trying to get the woman to let YOU know she's really into you and wants more.
vlod|3 years ago
To answer your question, WAAAY later than you think.
Once you are friends and they are comfortable with you. You know their hobbies/passions and things that annoy them. You're trying to understand if this person is someone you want to hang out with for a long time and you'd have fun with them even if you weren't 'together'. You have to be really 'into' chillin with this person.
Most people use the dating period to get to know one another. The problem is the desire to 'date' and have sex (as early as possible) is a real turn off. Your ability to not want sex makes you a LOT more attractive and serious. Women put up with this becz most guys do this. Not doing this puts you in a different league.
Really you're trying to get the woman to let YOU know she's really into you and wants more.