[daurnimator]

You might be able to find a solution in migadu (https://www.migadu.com/)

[PetitSasquatch]

I found Migadu through a HN post like this and can't recommend them enough. It feels like having my own mail server without the headaches. The pricing model works for me and I find the control panel really well laid out. I don't think I could return to an email provider that leases emails at my own domain back to me.

[SkinTaco]

Wow, this is exactly what I'm looking for. How often do emails you send go to other people's spam? Do you know people with an outlook email?