I think the key is to actually like other people. If you don’t like them, how do you expect them to like you.
When you find people you like, ask them questions, people most love to talk about themselves. You should be interested in what they’re saying (because you like them).
People don’t like feeling that others are smarter than them so don’t try to act smart. People also love giving advice, as it makes them feel smart, so ask for advice. I’m very popular, I almost always boost people’s ego’s and I’m happy to be laughed at.
Also I believe people can often tell on a subconscious level when we don’t like ourselves, and if we don’t like ourselves why would someone else choose to like us.
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