[klaushougesen1]

The point is that "people"'s behaviour is on a bell curve and none of us are "normal" -> some lie at the edges when they are pressured but are fine when they are relaxed. -> Some gravitate towards the center - but may slide to either side depending on specific circumstances and situations.

The true fallacy is to think there is anything "normal" at all! -> rather we have "permissable / accepted" behaviour and "impermissible / unaccepted" and a very very large grayzone in between.

And educating yourself on the edges of that bell curve gives you the tools and acceptance needed to better deal with most of the stuff happening on that curve.