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Don't tie your self-worth to your employment status. You're putting extra pressure on yourself, you can't control the hiring process. All you can control is whether or not you're putting your best effort forward and actively looking for work to the best, and I mean the best, of your ability.

Do not beat yourself up, and do not feel sorry for yourself. These are traps that will damage your self-esteem and could potentially sabotage your relationship.

Communicate with your partner. Tell them how you're feeling and get feedback.