[insanejudge]

re: societal trust

Really feels like we need a massive exercise wherein folks have to repeat back what they heard someone say before responding to it, something they have people do in couples therapy.

In the last few years everyone's filters have gotten to the point where it seems like they really cannot even perceive what others say accurately -- literally substituting words -- and continually reframing arguments to the extent that a good portion of fighting online is over things nobody has said.

I mean heck even in the comments on this article, someone mentioned at the end of another comment that they thought this article was "irrelevant" which given this is ostensibly a tech news site that sounded fair (but also: so what?), and the person arguing back said they were "not our arbiter of acceptable content". Relevant... acceptable. The conceptual rift is massive, leaving the second person arguing against a point which has not been made (and then someone else makes a defense of the misconstrued point and so on and so on).