[flamebreath447]

So is it disrespectful to want to gift someone a meal? I don’t understand why it has to be so black and white.

Also the consent thing really sounds weird. Do you honestly go around making value judgements about when people did or did not seek your consent to this level of granularity? Why?

Again I think if the first place you go to when offered a free, meaningful and well intended gift is consent, you internally have an issue that you need to handle.