[ux-app]

ehh, it's a choice to buy into any of that bullshit.

we eloped $3,000km away to the tropics to get married. it was more of a holiday with a wedding day thrown in. we loosely, no expectations, invited a few friends and family and were pleasantly surprised to find 30 people met us there.

The whole thing, holiday and all cost us around $10k and was a total blast.

I found the traditional wedding day routine to be super claustrophobic and rigid.

[paulryanrogers]

The industry says weddings are "all about the bride", and IME the marketing seems almost exclusively targeting women and their anxiety. So it may be challenging to find a partner similarly minded.