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> "No one has ever said an unkind word to her."

Leave no opening for others to be mean towards you. One of those is going about life not trying to push/get things out of people -- but to share in the "good vibes."

Genuine happiness, without an under-current of consciousnesses of the possible utility, has very little detractors -- like a child that is unabashedly excited about a Christmas present. Throughout time, people usually realize they can temporarily generate and express feelings, that can influence others and be used for self-interest (no matter how small. E.g. forcing yourself to be happy about a present you received). In turn, they lose authenticity for utility -- and I believe people can sense that on an intuitive level, and put up their guard.

Human interaction is all push and pull. Don't be another force trying to push on people, and they will get along with you.

[arcanemachiner]

This comment fits in perfectly with the advice given by the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People".