[greatwave1]

Where does the child fall on this hierarchy... do they get any input in what technology they derive value/enjoyment from, or is that entirely dictated by adults in their community who grew up 20+ years ago?

[carlosjobim]

Swap the word "raise" to "influence" if you prefer. A person cannot really influence themselves.

[greatwave1]

Yes they can, people can (and should) have some influence over their own life.