[shabda]

I remember this quote here,

“Do not count on the gratitude of deeds done for people in the past, you must make them grateful for things you will do for them in the future.”

- Mario Puzo, Omerta.

[barelyauser]

In the book 48 Laws of Power from Robert Greene, Law 13 addresses this. If you held them by past deeds people will feel that they owe you something and nobody wants to owe anything to anyone. It is better instead to show them what they have to gain from now on.

[red-iron-pine]

that book is banned in prisons.

which means SBF won't be able to read it