[honestsuggestio]

This is perhaps a bit too much of a 'thinking outside the box' suggestion, and please don't take this the wrong way, but have you tried reading resources for post-surgical detransitioners, such as the r/detrans subreddit? Doing so might help you rethink your desire for surgery, potentially saving you $100k or so and avoiding all of the health risks and complications involved.

Alternatively maybe keep in mind that there are many high-profile people of gender who haven't had any of the surgeries and seem to be getting on just fine.

Hope this helps and best of luck in your job search.

[nope21137]

detrans is a transphobic subreddit. actual_detrans seems to be the real legit subreddit. Even though the above account is new, just a warning that HN has lots of transphobes.

[honestsuggestio]

Both are legit subreddits and neither are transphobic, the main difference is that in r/detrans allows detransitioners to express much more honest and open criticism of transition, and how they got to that point, than r/actual_detrans does.