I can't relate to the bottom line "get a doctor" - even though it turns up a lot in these kinds of discussions. I live in a reasonably civilized county (Germany), but still know people who have or had trouble finding medical help with serious mental health problems (depression etc.).
The idea of going to a doctor with "procrastination" seems very off in that context. Is it different in the US?
protoman3000|2 years ago
I understand your sentiment, but how about we call “procrastination” what it is: Consistent and repeated non- or under-functioning.
If the person has tried over years so many things, out of the good and best will to function, participate in society and work culture and still fails, why do you still call it “procrastination”? I guess it must be a cultural thing, especially German, to not give the benefit of doubt and just call a medically relevant condition “Faulheit”. I hope you realize that denying the be benefit of doubt - especially after many years of unsuccessful tries, perpetuates the sickness of people and denies them aid that would help them and make them functional again.
Procrastination can be a symptom of deep and challenging mental health issues, some of which have still huge stigma around them. This stigma makes individuals not seek help where actually needed. So please, work on your stigmatization and be more compassionate so that the person might have a chance to overcome their internalized stigmatization.
I mean, the goal here is to turn people functional again, and not bully them, am I right?