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DeWilde | 2 years ago

Why would it be sexist to have men's only spaces for the purposes of men's mental health?

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incompatible|2 years ago

If it's good for men's mental health, wouldn't it be good for women's mental health too? I just don't see how using a community workshop is related to gender.

SturgeonsLaw|2 years ago

Men behave differently around women, compared to an all-male environment. It's mostly subconscious, but men (especially the older generation) would instinctively put up a tough front while women are present, and would be hesitant to show signs of weakness, so some would have trouble truly opening up. No doubt there are also male health concerns that men would feel more comfortable talking about to other men.

It's not sexist to want men only spaces, just like women only gyms and salons are not sexist.

DeWilde|2 years ago

That is true, such spots should exist as well.

But the point of the men-only ones is to allow men to socialize with other men and talk about problems that affect them only or problems they don't feel comfortable talking about in a mixed setting.

prodent|2 years ago

Would this argument hold up in reverse for a women's shelter?

vasdae|2 years ago

No, the two sexes are different and we don't heal the same way or doing the same things.