[xfz]

One thing that really grates with this high percentage tip system is that it sucks the authenticity out of the relationship.

I don't want someone pretending they're my friend when we've only just met, or trying too hard to please, it can come over as being just an act and sometimes the interruptions are jarring. The difference is noticeable if you're used to dining outside of North America.

Sure, usually if they're not busy I try to strike up conversation with the waiter or at least ask how they're doing. People should be paid and treated as equals and not rewarded like a dog for performing tricks.

I honestly don't think the service is significantly different between countries with high and low tipping norms. But higher tips result in a higher BS factor overall.