[ochoseis]

I also used to think like this, but ultimately it reduces your spontaneity / flexibility / optionality. What if you want to host a gathering last minute, but it’s a busy time for restaurants? What if you sold your car because your city has a car share, and last minute you want to get out of town for the holiday (just like everyone else)?

You obviously shouldn’t pay to cover every edge case, but if you can it’s worth paying for the ones you value.