[williadc]

Reading between the lines, it sounds like you have had to deal with some tough situations in life already. Do you feel like your outlook on the future is colored by your past experiences?

One thing that helps me when I am discouraged is to take stock of the facts. If I don't get a FAANG job, can I still find success in life with the skills I've obtained? If I do get that FAANG job, what problems will I still have to face? Can I take another position in the meantime and try again with a stronger resumé? Thinking about the situation objectively usually helps me see that the stakes aren't as high as I imagined.