[helpfulmandrill]

I wish I lived in a society where I could have a kid at 25 rather than 35 without messing up my life. I feel like we ignore how nice it must be to have another 10 years with your parents in your life.

[arkey]

Why can't you have a kid at 25 without messing up your life? Some people do.

[helpfulmandrill]

That deadline has passed, but I was living in a one bedroom flat making no money at all at 25, as were most of my friends.