I've experienced a similar situation. I spent 20 years giving a lot more than what I received, but I've started questioning the impact of what I gave and if it was all worth it. I'm currently on the side of - it wasn't.
I'm in a similar situation. But I decided its anyway silly how disproportionate wealth distributes. I buy properties now and allow a zero-sum rent for my tenants.
xkcd1963|1 year ago