top | item 40208663

(no title)

idiomaddict | 1 year ago

I wasn’t allowed to play video games as a kid (in the 90s and early 00s). I don’t really care about it, but it has 100% been an occasional barrier to socializing. I don’t have any of the necessary coordination, so I’m not even fun to beat, because I just shoot myself or fall off the road immediately.

There’s definitely parties where people just play smash bros or inside jokes about water levels that I’ve literally missed out on, though I don’t especially care. If I were a more regretful person or one who experienced FOMO more, I could absolutely see feeling it about video games.

I don’t know that it’s 100% analogous to smart phones/social media (particularly because the required skills are probably lower), but kids are prone to social pressure.

discuss

order

xela79|1 year ago

being out of the loop of some video games, TV shows or any other entertainment can be awkward at times, for sure. But if you have a good groups of friends, they don't care one bit, and should embrace you for who you are, not for what popular things you have knowledge of.