[dj_mc_merlin]

> Unless you are able to stay within an extremely narrow range of behaviours (in terms of not being weird, basically speaking expected thinks in expected tone of voice and body language), nobody wants to associate with you.

I'll agree on the lack of on-ramps but this is a pretty limiting view. There's all kinds of people, many who will share some of whatever you think your weirdness is. If you only want to associate with a certain slice of society, it is not so weird that only certain slices of society want to associate with you.

[twojobsoneboss]

How many of them are both geographically close enough and discoverable enough tho?

[dj_mc_merlin]

You need to live near a population centre to find them, that's true. It's the same reason other minority groups such as homosexuals urbanized so quickly.