[yvely]

This is such a common frustration for me that I sometimes share to family, friends, and partner. They have a hard time understanding why I think it is such a big problem.

I think people perhaps have gotten to good at accepting the gruel they get, rather than the feast they could have. My partner tries to get me to be less frustrated all the time. She is right, of course, that this is not a helpful emotion. But I cannot concede and just accept gruel like this. Ordering plane tickets is something I dread every time.

Anyone have good ways of keeping the energy to improve and not let this affect you, despite it doing?