[portpecos]

> “Chanel, a white thirty-three-year-old with three children, ages fifteen, nine, and three, broke up with her youngest child’s father just after we met her for the first time. When we ask about him later, she says dismissively, ‘He’s not around no more. I got rid of him…He was only here to sleep—didn’t want to pay no bills, didn’t want to do nothing. When he was here all he did was fight and argue and drink. I had to get rid of [him].’ She purses her lips in disgust as she tells us such men are unworthy of the children they father.”

She had 3 children with that guy. Instead of picking a nice dorky Christian boy, she went after the tingles. I hear so many stories from young mothers about how they had the opportunity to settle down with a wholesome boy who was willing to care for them, but she preferred the bad boy without a job because the sex was just so fucking awesome. And then she gets pregnant and start tricking on the streets. I have no sympathy for such women because they can’t help their monkey branching tendencies. The social media has convinced these girls that it’s ok to play fast and loose with sex, which results in fast and loose choices and long-term devastating social consequences. As much as men need to be taught, women need to be taught to lower their physical standards. Because the hot gangster guy who gets “play” is hardly going to settle. Sure the acne-ridden nerd is ugly, but he’ll be there for you through thick and thin.

[swagasaurus-rex]

Sounds like she had at least two different fathers to her children, maybe 3.

This is poverty creating behavior. She made an enormous mistake bearing a child to not one, but two deadbeats, but she doesn’t frame it as her error.

[graysonk]

This is an insane level of projection

[big-green-man]

While I disagree with most od the unsavory stuff said above, I do think there's a nugget of truth in the premise. If you pick a man because he's wearing expensive sneakers you really can't be surprised when he continues to spend his money on expensive sneakers.

[squigz]

The reason women don't pick the "nice dorky Christian boy", is because of comments like this. Nice Guys turn everybody off.

[paulryanrogers]

Visit r/exchristian to find out why the "nice Christian" guys aren't always a great catch. I say this as someone who was a "nice Christian" guy.

And when men sleep around they are just sowing their wild oats. Yet when women do it, it's some kind of unnatural moral failure.

Everyone should be free to explore their own sexuality, without judgement, and with robust education and tools to control their own reproduction.

[notaustinpowers]

Absolutely nothing you said about her is based on any facts or analysis in that article. Don't fall into incel behavior here with projections and unfounded assumptions spouting them off as fact. Do better.