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nakeru | 1 year ago

Weird, incel vibes from this post. "Body count" is incredibly disrespectful, amongst other things because it seems to only be used with women. Also, browsing the website I found that this person believes an Elon Musk monarchy would be great.

On a different note. I'm average looking, of average to short stature and have a decent job but I'm far from rich (but I'm frugal so I look poorer than I am). I haven't for a while but I used Tinder extensively for about two years. I met over ten women and dated for a while two in that period. Without being obsessed with the app.

What I mean is, while the dating app landscape is generally unfair to men (mostly our own fault, most men will "like" everything without even looking) it's not as bad as some incels online would let you believe. And hey, if apps don't work, try the old school method of going out. It really works.

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wiseowise|1 year ago

> Weird, incel vibes from this post. "Body count" is incredibly disrespectful, amongst other things because it seems to only be used with women.

You’ll find those at women forums too. “Manslut”, “manwhore”, etc. And no, it’s completely fine to judge person by amount of partners they’ve had.

Hedder|1 year ago

>"Body count" is incredibly disrespectful, amongst other things because it seems to only be used with women

That's not a valid reason. For example, "height" is not an incredibly disrespectful metric, just because it is only used to judge men.

Men care about a woman's body count far more than women typically do a man's. Vice versa for height.