[uncivilized]

Thanks for the explanation and for the detailed responses in the links.

I agree with them, but what ends up occurring is similar to situations in schoolyards where a bully who starts a confrontation isn’t punished, but the person who fights back is punished because it’s the person who fights back that causes a scene.

I will reach out you via email to delete my account.

[dang]

I think this is a repetition of the same phenomenon. No one looks upon themselves as the bully or the person who started it. It always feels like the other person did worse.