[oddthink]

I always come back to Schutz's Geometrical Methods of Mathematical Physics as my reference for notation, but I agree. I came to this by way of General Relativity, so that colors my perceptions. The few treatments of GA that I've looked at (briefly) weren't very clear about the distinction between 1-forms and 1-vectors and seemed to assume Euclidean metric everywhere, so I left thinking that it seemed a little weird and not quite trusting it.

In any case, my experience is that the coordinate-free manipulations only go so far, but that you pretty quickly need to drop to some coordinates to actually get work done. d*F=J is nice and all, but it won't calculate your fields for you.