[hunterrrrrr]

> and I have never placed the security of a job above the value of home

Yeah I mean this tracks because we can look at data to prove that it’s true. The value of a single family home in California has increased 10%-11% year over year. Is your salary increasing 10-11% year over year? What’s the point of chasing income at your job once you own a single family home here? Lol. I had to explain to my wife today that it’s ok that she hasn’t replaced her 70k a year salary and that it’s ok for her to be in school right now. We could sell our house and pocket the difference and nothing was lost financially.

Hopefully the companies doing business here catch up, I know it’s going to take a lot of difficult conversations and hand wringing, I’m really rooting for them. I can’t imagine the struggle of figuring out how to pay employees a living wage. Really can’t imagine what they must be going through right now as they execute mass lay offs in tech. My heart goes out to all of the execs. Truly. lol.

[jstanley]

> We could sell our house and pocket the difference and nothing was lost financially.

This is a fallacy. You're born "short housing", because you need somewhere to live. Owning a house is just cancelling out your natural short position. If you sell the house, you're short again. You might make a "profit" on the house if the market went up, but that just means you'll be buying another house in the new more expensive market.

If you want to upsize, you're actually better off if the market goes down, because then to get a house that is X% more expensive requires less additional capital.

[robocat]

> you're actually better off if the market goes down

Only in a perfectly spherical house market. In my limited experience (non-US market), your assumptions are poor. Opinion:

1: You often can't get a mortgage on the same terms so you often can't find equality between selling a home and buying a home.

2: When the market is down, turnover can reduce drastically so your choices for a house can be severely restricted.

3: when the market is down, prices are sometimes driven by unwilling sellers and bargain hunters. A desirable home may sell at a reasonable price but an average home might not.

The market is often down when interest rates are up and you can't get a mortgage on terms that suit you.

> You're born "short housing"

You are short the "minimum" necessary which is a lot smaller than a whole house. You are not short 1.0 houses. Maybe short 1.0 rooms. And it really depends on who else you are tightly linked with (family or partner).

[pixelatedindex]

> If you sell the house, you're short again. You might make a "profit" on the house if the market went up, but that just means you'll be buying another house in the new more expensive market.

As someone who doesn’t own a home and dreams of buying one, I really don’t believe this take. Anyone who bought a home in the late 2000s post-crash is now living in a much nicer place while spending the same.

I don’t think I’ll get an opportunity to see such a massive increase to quality of life by doing practically nothing. Housing prices won’t go down any time soon, so now I have to spend way more with much poorer ROI prospects.

[hunterrrrrr]

> If you sell the house, you’re short again

Unless we aren’t short again. 10% is the median year over year growth. What if it was 20%? Is that more realistic than her doubling her income in the same time period? I think that we could only be short if rent increases at the same rate that the property appreciated? Maybe I’m completely cooked / fried - it’s pretty late - and I’d be happy to be wrong - as my version of reality I’m seeing feels pretty destitute as it is

[itsmemattchung]

I agree with you regarding the rising value of a home year of year compared to the salary increasing. That being said

> and I have never placed the security of a job above the value of home

I think what the author was referring to was not the value of [a] home (i.e. equity in the house) but the concept of a home as it relates to family.

[hunterrrrrr]

Right, I am making the joke of taking it literally

[earnesti]

Having a house is not enough to live. You need money for other things as well.

But yeah, capital income is rising way faster than salaries. At this point this really shouldn't be any kind of news to anyone, as it has been a trend for a long time now.

For the average Joe it doesn't really mean "you should buy a house" because homes can be really shitty investments, and it is not really one if you live in it. It is more about the fact that everyone should be focusing getting capital income as early as possible. Index funds being the most obvious choice.

[knallfrosch]

I think you're lost in the technical details of your finances.

You've got a roof over your head and your capabilities and health allow you to move freely across the globe and get work and roof anywhere else, too.

You could lose your house tomorrow, but you'll still have a home. After all, you do have a wife.

"Your real life is with us, your family."

[yard2010]

In theory, you mean. Keep it in theory, that's all I'm saying.