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wasma | 1 year ago

Who do you trust? Would tinder and bumble have the same mindset?

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rollcat|1 year ago

Applies to all dating apps, really: just treat any info you put in your profile as 100% public, for anyone, worldwide. Location is easily faked, other filtering options are about as effective as a lone "do not enter" sign with no fence - I can put any info I like into my profile to fit your criteria and have you show up in my feed.

Chats? The only IM apps with functional E2EE are: Signal, iMessage, WhatsApp; and even those have trade-offs. Treat everything else as readable by some third party, and dating apps by design need to be able to look into people's chats to be able to handle harassment cases.

That of course is no excuse for having gaping security/privacy holes, but you're trading off quite a bit of privacy by design; it's like meeting in a public space where you can feel a little bit safer with someone you don't know yet.

I'd say if you're concerned with any of that, go meet new people IRL, but there are 100% legitimate cases where this is not the most effective strategy (e.g. Feeld's primary target audience).

throwaway2037|1 year ago

Lots of great points in your post.

Real question: Has WhatsApp ever had a security leak that we know about? Example: Someone can break into accounts, or chats were leaked?

INTPenis|1 year ago

The for-profit dating scene is a quagmire. Sure it can work, I've seen it work, but at what cost?

We desperately need a new platform owned and operated by the people, for the people.

rollcat|1 year ago

Hey, sign me up. Outside the "necessary evil" trade-offs inherent to facilitating one-on-one meetups, I would really love a platform that treats people like people, not cattle to be milked for money.