[irdc]

> Like how many straight geeky single dads do lesbians want in their friendship group really

Really? If they have kids themselves connecting to someone in a similar situation who is otherwise not like them can be really refreshing.

[pmg101]

A priori you might think so. I'm just reporting my experience.

To be clear - if I see any of my clubmates out on the roads, which happens a lot, we'll often briefly chat! Acquaintances are nice to have too, for sure. But we aren't inviting each other to our barbeques.